{"id":223819,"date":"2018-05-29T08:54:44","date_gmt":"2018-05-29T05:54:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kinsta.unitedwithisrael.org\/?p=223819"},"modified":"2018-05-29T08:54:44","modified_gmt":"2018-05-29T05:54:44","slug":"honrar-o-respetar-a-los-padres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kinsta.unitedwithisrael.org\/es\/honrar-o-respetar-a-los-padres\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfHonrar o Respetar a los padres?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u05db\u05d1\u05d3 \u05d0\u05ea \u05d0\u05d1\u05d9\u05da \u05d5\u05d0\u05ea \u05d0\u05de\u05da<\/strong>
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En la Tor\u00e1 hay dos preceptos que regulan la relaci\u00f3n padres \/hijos. El primero es kabbed et abija ve-et imeja \u201cHonra a tu padre y a tu madre\u201d. Este es el quinto de los Diez Mandamientos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Hay una segunda Mitsv\u00e1 en el libro de Vayiqr\u00e1 -Lev\u00edtico- 19, 3, que dice ish imm\u00f3 veabiv tira\u2019u, \u201cEl hombre debe respetar a su madre y a su padre\u201d. Estas dos Mitsvot son diferentes y de hecho, se complementan entre s\u00ed, como veremos a continuaci\u00f3n.<\/p>\n

Comenzaremos por la Mitsv\u00e1 de respetar a nuestros padres. El lenguaje que utiliza la Tor\u00e1, que nosotros tradujimos por \u201crespeto\u201d es tira\u2019u , que literalmente significa \u201ctemer\u201d. Pero no se trata de tenerle miedo a los padres sino de respetarlos.<\/p>\n

\u00bfCu\u00e1l es la diferencia entre el temor y el respeto?
\nEl temor se asocia a la idea de \u201cmiedo\u201d, es decir, un sentimiento que est\u00e1 fuera de mi control y que generalmente nos paraliza. El \u201cRespeto\u201d, por el otro lado, es una actitud proactiva: considerar en nuestro comportamiento la autoridad de nuestros padres.<\/p>\n

RESPETAR <\/strong>
\nRespetar a los padres generalmente apunta a lo que NO debemos hacer .<\/p>\n

Algunos ejemplos:<\/p>\n

No puedo llamar a mis padres por su nombre particular.<\/p>\n

No puedo desobedecer o faltar el respeto a mis padres.<\/p>\n

Un hijo o una hija no deben sentarse en el lugar designado para su padre o su madre. Por ejemplo, en el lugar que la madre o el padre se sientan a la mesa o en un sill\u00f3n o silla especial del padre o la madre; en el asiento del padre en la sinagoga, etc.<\/p>\n

El respeto hacia los padres es una forma de establecer las l\u00edneas claras: \u201cYo soy el padre y tu eres el hijo: te amo, pero no somos iguales.\u201d. Esta distancia es absolutamente necesaria para los hijos, no para el ego de los padres. \u00bfPor qu\u00e9? Porque estos principios establecen l\u00edmites y definen la autoridad, sin lo cual un ni\u00f1o no puede ser bien educado. En un sentido pr\u00e1ctico, la Mitsv\u00e1 de \u201crespetar\u201d a nuestros padres se aplica principalmente cuando somos ni\u00f1os o adolescentes y dependemos de nuestros padres. Un ni\u00f1o jud\u00edo se educa a actuar con disciplina y aceptar la autoridad de los padres lo cual eventualmente lo entrenar\u00e1 para aceptar la autoridad Divina. Solo cuando uno aprende a respetar a sus padres est\u00e1 preparado para respetar a Dios.<\/p>\n

HONRAR <\/strong>
\nLa Mitsv\u00e1 de \u201cHonrar a los padres\u201d es diferente. No se trata de lo que NO nos est\u00e1 permitido hacer hacia nuestros padres, sino de lo que debemos hacer hacia nuestros padres. B\u00e1sicamente, honrar a nuestros padres significa cuidar y ocuparnos de nuestros padres. Este es el quinto de los Diez mandamientos.<\/p>\n

Nuestros sabios explicaron que honrar a los padres incluye por ejemplo ayudar a nuestros padres, visitarlos, acompa\u00f1arlos, llevarlos y traerlos, y si fuera necesario, darles de comer y vestirlos. Esta Mitsv\u00e1 hace hincapi\u00e9 en el deber de gratitud y reconocimiento hacia quienes nos alimentaron, nos vistieron y cuidaron de nosotros cuando \u00e9ramos ni\u00f1os.<\/p>\n

Como el lector podr\u00e1 apreciar, el respeto a los padres se aplica principalmente cuando los hijos dependemos de nuestros padres. Mientras que honrar a los padres se aplica principalmente cuando nuestros padres son mayores y dependen de los hijos.<\/p>\n

Por:\u00a0Rabbi Yosef Bitton<\/p>\n

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