{"id":163712,"date":"2019-08-10T22:00:20","date_gmt":"2019-08-10T19:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kinsta.unitedwithisrael.org\/es\/?p=163712"},"modified":"2019-08-10T22:57:23","modified_gmt":"2019-08-10T19:57:23","slug":"como-vivimos-nuestro-duelo-en-el-9-de-av","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kinsta.unitedwithisrael.org\/es\/como-vivimos-nuestro-duelo-en-el-9-de-av\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfC\u00f3mo vivimos nuestro duelo en el 9 de Av?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"lead\">Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb es un d\u00eda de ayuno y tambi\u00e9n un d\u00eda de duelo colectivo. Durante Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb nos conducimos como si fu\u00e9ramos dolientes que est\u00e1n de luto por un ser querido que acaba de fallecer. Para expresar o llegar a este estado emocional de dolor, durante Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb evitamos participar de ciertas actividades de las que se deriva un placer f\u00edsico, o asociadas con alegr\u00eda y de aquello que nos distraiga del estado de \u00e1nimo apropiado para un doliente.<\/p>\n<p>Algunos ejemplos<\/p>\n<p><strong>LIMUD TORA:<\/strong><br \/>\nEn Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb nos abstenemos de estudiar Tor\u00e1, porque estudiar Tor\u00e1 es una actividad placentera. Podemos leer y estudiar libros o textos conectados con tribulaciones o pesar, como el libro de Iyob (Job) o Ej\u00e1, o algunos pasajes del libro de Yrmiyahu o alg\u00fan Salmos de Tehiim (por ejemplo, 44), masejet mo&#8217;ed qat\u00e1n, etc.<\/p>\n<p><strong>TRABAJO: <\/strong><br \/>\nEn Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb no se recomienda trabajar porque el trabajo distrae nuestra atenci\u00f3n del duelo. Abstenerse de trabajar en Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb, sin embargo, no es una prohibici\u00f3n formal, sino m\u00e1s bien una tradici\u00f3n que algunas comunidades han adoptado y otras no (minhag hamaqom). Y tambi\u00e9n depende de la situaci\u00f3n financiera o profesional de cada individuo. En cualquier caso, si por no trabajar en Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb uno incurrir\u00e1 en p\u00e9rdidas econ\u00f3micas significativas o arriesgar\u00eda su puesto de trabajo, se permite que siga trabajando durante Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>SHE-ELAT SHALOM (saludar)<\/strong><br \/>\nEn Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb no saludamos a amigos y compa\u00f1eros como de costumbre, ya que nuestro estado de \u00e1nimo es, o debe ser, el estado de \u00e1nimo de un doliente. Si alguien nos saluda, podemos reconocer el saludo y devolver de forma discreta el gesto.<\/p>\n<p><strong>SENTARSE EN EL SUELO: <\/strong><br \/>\nLa costumbre general es que durante la lectura de la Meguilat Ej\u00e1 la gente no se sienta en los bancos de la sinagoga, sino en el suelo, al igual que lo hacen los dolientes durante el shib&#8217;a (los primeros siete d\u00edas de duelo jud\u00edo).<\/p>\n<p><strong>REJITSA (Lavado): <\/strong><br \/>\nAl igual que en Yom Kippur, en Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb est\u00e1 prohibido tomar una ducha, ba\u00f1arnos o lavarnos por placer . Sin embargo, si una parte de nuestro cuerpo se ensuci\u00f3, podemos lavarnos. Se permite el uso de toallitas h\u00famedas de bebe (wipes) para limpiar el rostro, los ojos, las manos, etc., porque este tipo de limpieza no se considera \u00ablavado\u00bb. T\u00e9cnicamente podr\u00edamos lavarnos las manos normalmente en la ma\u00f1ana para hacer Netilat Yadayim, porque lo hacemos por una Mitzv\u00e1 y no por placer. De todas maneras, la costumbre Sefarad\u00ed es lavarnos s\u00f3lo los dedos para Netilat Yadayim.<\/p>\n<p><strong>SIJA (Uso de cremas) <\/strong><br \/>\nUtilizar cremas o ung\u00fcentos por placer o comodidad no est\u00e1 permitido durante Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb. Se permite usar cremas o ung\u00fcentos de prescripci\u00f3n m\u00e9dica. Usar desodorante est\u00e1 permitido.<\/p>\n<p><strong>NE&#8217;ILAT HASANDAL (usar zapatos de cuero) <\/strong><br \/>\nLos zapatos de cuero se consideran un art\u00edculo de lujo (calzado de vestir). Y como estamos de duelo, durante Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb, no llevamos zapatos de cuero. Podemos usar zapatillas de tela u otro tipo de calzado de pl\u00e1stico, etc. Otros art\u00edculos de cuero, como un cintur\u00f3n de cuero o una Kipa de cuero est\u00e1n permitidos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>TASHMISH HAMITA (Intimidad) <\/strong><br \/>\nLa relaciones \u00edntimas se suspenden en Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb. Si la noche del Mikv\u00e9 cae en la noche de Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb, es decir, el S\u00e1bado 13 de Agosto por la noche, el Mikv\u00e9 tiene que ser postergado para la noche siguiente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>TEFILIN<\/strong><br \/>\nEn Yerushalayim los Sefaradim acostumbran a usar Talit y Tefil\u00edn normalmente durante la ma\u00f1ana de Tish&#8217;\u00e1 beAb. En la mayor\u00eda de las comunidades de la di\u00e1spora, tanto Sefaradim como Ashkenazim, acostumbran a no usar Tefil\u00edn por la ma\u00f1ana. Ya que el Tefil\u00edn es una se\u00f1al de honor y orgullo: una corona (pe-er) en nuestra cabeza, que declara que somos el pueblo elegido de Dios. En la mayor\u00eda de las comunidades se viste el Talit y el Tefil\u00edn a la tarde para Minj\u00e1. En algunas comunidades la tradici\u00f3n es que antes de ir a la Sinagoga uno se pone el Talit y Tefil\u00edn en casa, dice Qaddesh Li y Shem\u00e1 Israel y luego va a rezar a la Sinagoga.<\/p>\n<p>Por: Rabino Yosef Bitton, colaborador de Unidos con Israel<\/p>\n<!-- ERROR: El anuncio no est\u00e1 disponible en este momento debido a las restricciones restricciones de programa o geolocalizaci\u00f3n! --><shortcode id=\"donate-es\"><cta><a href=\"https:\/\/donate.kinsta.unitedwithisrael.org\/donate\/g1s?utm_campaign=SpanishDonations&utm_source=UWI(spanish)&utm_medium=article&utm_term=donate\"><a href=\"https:\/\/donate.kinsta.unitedwithisrael.org\/donate\/g1s?utm_campaign=SpanishDonations&utm_source=UWI(spanish)&utm_medium=article&utm_term=donate\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"no-border alignright size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/kinsta.unitedwithisrael.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/shutterstock_1528562331-300x173.jpg\"alt=\"shutterstock_152856233\" width=\"300\" height=\"173\"\/><\/a><h2>\u00bfEst\u00e1s Unido con Israel? \u00a1DEMU\u00c9STRALO!<\/h2><p><p>\u00bfQuieres hacer algo grande por Israel hoy mismo? 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